In their book, The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results, authors Gary Keller and Jay Papasan suggest that a laser-like focus on the most important is essential to realizing success.
Since the book dovetails so closely to my views of simplify…eliminate…prioritize…focus, I recommend it highly. Below, I give some quick notes on the key points found in the book. But, I do encourage you to pick it up, read it, and follow its ideas.
- We need to avoid the productivity myths and achievement lies so common today:
- Everything matters equally
- We can be good at multitasking
- All it takes is self-discipline and willpower
- Instead, in order to achieve results and success and be as productive as we can be, we need to focus on the most important.
- The focusing question is:
- “What’s the one thing I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary.”
- The moment by moment focusing question is:
- “What’s the one thing I can do right now such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary.”
- To achieve our one thing, we need to create a success habit.
- We need to create the habit to stay true to the focusing question by keeping our one thing as top priority every day.
- “People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their futures.” M. Alexander
- We need to time block our day to focus on ‘our one thing’ for up to four hours a day every day (usually first thing in the morning when we are freshest).
- We must protect this time of day fiercely avoiding all distractions, interruptions, and temptations.
- And we need to commit ourselves to being accountable to achieving ‘our one thing.’
- By being accountable, we must
- Seek reality
- “What’s happening?”
- Acknowledge reality
- “This is the way it is.”
- Own it
- “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.”
- Find the solution
- “What can I do?”
- Get on with it
- “O.K., let’s do it!”
- Seek reality
- By being accountable, we must
- By all means, we need to avoid being a victim who
- Avoids reality
- Asks no questions.
- Fights reality
- “That’s not how I see it.”
- Blames
- “If everyone else would just do their job.”
- Creates personal excuses
- “It’s not my job.”
- Waits and hopes
- “If it was meant to be, it will happen.”
- Avoids reality
- Realizing our one thing requires that we prioritize and eliminate. As such, we will need to:
- Neglect or do just adequate work on other tasks of lower priority.
- “Focusing on one thing has a guaranteed consequence: other things don’t get done.”
- Constantly say “No” to less important items and requests.
- Neglect or do just adequate work on other tasks of lower priority.
- In conclusion, “success is an inside job.”
- It is on us to determine our one thing.
- It is on us to create the habits and avoid the distractions and realize our one thing.
- It is on us to get started today.